Caregivers

Talking to a loved one with cancer often means learning how to listen, pause, and simply show up.

Talking to a loved one with cancer can stop you in your tracks. You may rehearse conversations in your head before a visit or hesitate before picking up the phone, unsure how to begin. Do you name what’s happening right away, or steer around it? Is humor helpful or inappropriate? What if they cry, or you do?

Family communication in caregiving can either ease tension or fuel it, depending on how conversations are handled.

Family communication in caregiving often starts with good intentions and ends with raised voices, hurt feelings, or conversations that never quite get finished. You may go into a discussion hoping to solve one small issue, like who will handle appointments or whether extra help is needed, only to realize you’re actually unpacking years of family history, assumptions, and unspoken worries.

Placing limits on your caregiving responsibilities isn’t easy, but it’s vitally important for both you and the person in your care.

When you’re supporting someone day after day, it’s easy for “I can handle it” to become your automatic response. You say yes before you pause to check your calendar, your energy level, or your own needs. You stay later than planned, eat on the go, cancel personal plans, and tell yourself you’ll rest once things slow down. The problem is, caregiving rarely slows down on its own. Without placing limits on your caregiving responsibilities, the strain keeps building until exhaustion or frustration starts to show up in ways you didn’t expect.

Looking for little changes in an older parent’s life is key to ensuring they’re receiving the right level of care and preventing serious problems.

Aging rarely announces itself all at once. More often, it shows up in pieces, a small change here, a minor adjustment there. When you think back over the past year with a parent, the standout moments might be a holiday visit or a medical appointment. But the shifts that deserve your attention usually live in the in-between times, woven into everyday routines. It’s these changes in an older parent’s life that you need to begin to pay attention to.

Understanding conditions that mimic dementia can help you find answers and treatments you might not otherwise consider.

When someone you love begins showing symptoms like confusion, memory loss, or difficulty with everyday tasks, it’s natural to fear the worst. Dementia is often the first explanation that comes to mind. But what you might not realize is that there are conditions that mimic dementia, conditions that look almost identical at first glance but may actually be treatable. That means the changes you’re seeing may not be permanent, and the future may be far more hopeful than you think.

Balancing work and caregiving becomes easier when you have the right tools, support, and mindset.

Balancing work and caregiving can feel like a tug-of-war between two parts of your identity: your career, which you’ve spent years building, and your role as a son or daughter, which comes with deep love and responsibility. Most of us don’t realize how intertwined these roles are until a new reality begins to emerge: a parent who suddenly needs support, supervision, or hands-on help at home. The shift may be subtle at first – missed medications, difficulty getting around, small safety concerns – until one day it becomes clear that more consistent assistance is needed. And that’s when the real worry sets in: How am I supposed to manage all of this? Do I have to choose between the job I love and … Read More »

Knowing how to involve kids in caregiving can make everyone involved feel more connected.

Kids have a way of transforming a room the moment they walk in. Their questions come out of nowhere, their laughter is contagious, and their energy fills the space with something light and refreshing. While caregiving is usually handled by adults, understanding how to involve kids in caregiving helps everyone involved.

Caregiving conflict in blended families often improves when the focus shifts to shared goals.

Caring for someone you love comes with big emotions, even in families that have been connected for decades. When a second marriage, step-family relationships, or a blended household is part of your story, those emotions can multiply quickly. Each person brings different experiences, different communication styles, and sometimes different ideas of what “the right thing” looks like, which can lead to caregiving conflict in blended families.

And when care needs come up suddenly, all of those differences show up at once. Decisions need to be made quickly. Everyone wants to help, but not everyone agrees on how. It can feel messy, overwhelming, or even tense when the roles aren’t clear and the past starts influencing the present.

If you’re in this situation, the good … Read More »

During this special time, we would like to extend a heartfelt THANKS to the entire Hired Hands Homecare team.  On a daily basis, we make such a significant impact on the lives of so many.  That major achievement is only possible through the tireless dedication and compassion of an amazing group of diverse people.  Together, we make magic happen for people and families when they need it most… and we are most thankful for every individual that contributes their all to the Hired Hands team.

Here’s wishing our amazing team, and the families that we care for, a wonderful Thanksgiving!
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Improv is one creative dementia care strategy that can be both effective and fun.

Receiving a diagnosis of dementia is never easy. It kicks off an emotional rollercoaster of fear, anxiety, uncertainty, grief, and more, all of which are heightened if the diagnosis is given starkly, without empathy or compassion. There are steps doctors can (and should) take when delivering a dementia diagnosis to ease the initial impact, empowering and equipping the individual and family with knowledge and support.